randoms

I had a fun hangout on Friday with Mr. Universe. We watched "Paranormal Activity" and I made my almost famous White Chocolate Mochas:) The movie was pretty scary. The vibe, was comfortable. He is clearly comfortable around me and in my home. I can't say I take the situation seriously. I am having a hard time getting over his age. So far I can honestly say that he hasn't showed his age at all. I am being very direct in this situation, which so far he is working well with. My LAST "relationship" was with a person who doesn't take instruction at all. This guy, when I tell him what I would like to have happen, he does it, and CONSISTANTLY does it. (so far)

One of the main things I like is that every time I ask him a question through text, he calls me to answer it. Even if it's an uncomfortable question.

He asked me the other day if I am looking for a husband, or what I am looking for. I said I am looking for a meaningful relationship, and if it's not meaningful, then I don't want it. Marriage? who knows. I can't imagine feeling that sort of comfort level with a man. I'm looking for that man that is not selfish. The last two were VERY selfish, and I don't want to that.

I am noticing lately how broke everyone is. It seems like EVERYBODY is strugglin big time. I am doing okay because my job hasn't changed, but my ex husband has gotten real sketchy with child support. Also, I have too much $$ out there that I have lent to people that I trusted implicitly, only to find out that, just like their expenses were so important when they asked, their situation NOW is more important then paying back a single mom with 4 kids. sigh.

I will not be loaning again. I mean, these 2 people, I would NEVER IMAGINE they would make light of paying me back!! I mean, both of these people pretty much only provide for themself. ONE PERSON. It's so insulting and hurts my feelings. The girlfriend I loaned it to is NOW making it a priority, so I guess I am currently only talking about the guy, who said he would see if he has $200 to "spare" on the first. It did not sound very promising. And that's only half of what he still owes.

It is true what my mama told me.."NO GOOD DEED GOES UNPUNISHED".

It's Sunday. This is my day to cook, laundry, and work, while juggling the kids. yaaaaaaay. LOL